2 Samuel 6.16, 20-23 According to God, who gave us the family, families matter. Resentment will destroy your family and leave you miserable. The Saddest Marriage In The Bible. Eventually resentment will destroy everything it touches. Dealing With Resentment David had a heart connected to God. Michal did not. Michal could never let go. David did. Recognize your resentment. Commit to a journey of forgiveness. Look for a path of reconciliation. Express gratitude.