Everybody wants to go to Heaven, but nobody wants to die.

By Chris Reitmayer, January 31, 2021

Question: How can a good person that doesn’t know Jesus end up in hell?

Activity How many pieces did you pick up?

Mark 10:17-31

17 As Jesus started on his way, a man ran up to him and fell on his knees before him. “Good teacher,” he asked, “what must I do to inherit eternal life?”

18 “Why do you call me good?” Jesus answered. “No one is good—except God alone. 19 You know the commandments: ‘You shall not murder, you shall not commit adultery, you shall not steal, you shall not give false testimony, you shall not defraud, honor your father and mother.’”

20 “Teacher,” he declared, “all these I have kept since I was a boy.”

21 Jesus looked at him and loved him. “One thing you lack,” he said. “Go, sell everything you have and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me.”

22 At this the man’s face fell. He went away sad, because he had great wealth.

23 Jesus looked around and said to his disciples, “How hard it is for the rich to enter the kingdom of God!”

24 The disciples were amazed at his words. But Jesus said again, “Children, how hard it is to enter the kingdom of God! 25 It is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for someone who is rich to enter the kingdom of God.”

26 The disciples were even more amazed, and said to each other, “Who then can be saved?”

27 Jesus looked at them and said, “With man this is impossible, but not with God; all things are possible with God.”

28 Then Peter spoke up, “We have left everything to follow you!”

29 “Truly I tell you,” Jesus replied, “no one who has left home or brothers or sisters or mother or father or children or fields for me and the gospel 30 will fail to receive a hundred times as much in this present age: homes, brothers, sisters, mothers, children and fields—along with persecutions—and in the age to come eternal life. 31 But many who are first will be last, and the last first.”

How can a person be saved? Exodus 20:1-17; Acts 16:30; Acts 4:12

What does it mean to be saved? Mark 1:15; Galatians 2:20

Who can be saved?

Big IDEA: Salvation is not a right we earn, but a gift we receive.

Matthew 13:44

44 “The kingdom of heaven is like treasure hidden in a field. When a man found it, he hid it again, and then in his joy went and sold all he had and bought that field.

  • What’s God saying to you?
  • What are you going to do about it?
  • Who do you need to tell?

Discussion Questions:

Review the message. What stuck out to you? How did you feel challenged or encouraged?

Review Mark 10:17-31. What new insight have you gained? How can you apply that to your life?

Do you feel comfortable talking to people about salvation? Why or why not?

Do you tend to think of salvation in terms of the future, present, or both? Discuss.

How do you typically respond to the question: How can a good person that doesn’t know Jesus end up in hell?

What do you think it means to be a good person? What defines someone as good or bad?

During the message, it was suggested that we assume our character [I’m a good person] without accounting for our wealth/privilege/advantage. Have you ever thought of this before? Do you agree? Disagree? Why or why not?

If you feel comfortable, share how many pieces you picked up during the exercise [if you missed the exercise, see the 20 if statements below].

  1. How does your wealth/privilege enable you to be/do good or inversely how does your lack of wealth/privilege sometimes inhibit you from being/doing good?

  2. Can you think of any times in your life when a lack of privilege/wealth actually enabled you to experience more of God? (i.e. maybe you needed money for something and God miraculously provided)

  3. If you have a lot of pieces, how do you think your wealth/privilege prevents you from experiencing more of the kingdom of God? Where do you not have to rely on God because of wealth/privilege?

  4. What things (privileges) might God be inviting you to let go of so that you can trust him more? (i.e. examples could be related to money or keeping quiet about your faith or…)

Read Matthew 11:44. Do you think the kingdom of heaven is worth laying down everything for? Why is this so hard? Why is this worth it? Discuss.

The title of the sermon is “Everybody wants to go to heaven, but nobody wants to die”. In what area of your life is God teaching you to die these days? How will you act on that this week?


Pick up a piece if…

  1. If you’ve lived most of your life in North America or a developed country.
  2. If you have never left your home or your home country because you were in danger.
  3. If you’ve never been directly affected by war.
  4. If your parents owned the home you grew up in.
  5. If you vacationed outside of your home province before the age of 18.
  6. If you’ve ever flown on an airplane.
  7. If during your childhood you had enough to eat most of the time.
  8. If you’ve never been homeless.
  9. If you have access to medical care.
  10. If you have opportunity or have been encouraged to attend college.
  11. If you or your family own a car.
  12. If there were more than 50 books in your house when you grew up.
  13. If you ever attended private school or summer camp.
  14. If you were raised in a home with two parents.
  15. If you are or were generally able to avoid places that are considered dangerous.
  16. If your parents grew up in North America or a developed country.
  17. If either of your parents went to college.
  18. If you or your family ever inherited money or property.
  19. If you came from a supportive family environment.
  20. If you or your family owns a computer.