Brokenness of Jacob

By John Conn, August 06, 2023

**“The Brokenness and Redemption of Jacob”

  1. Introduction
  1. Overview of Jacob's life and character **

Jacob's life, is a testimony of brokenness, transformation, and redemption. He was the son of Isaac and Rebekah and the grandson of Abraham and Sarah, making him a part of the lineage of God's chosen people. However, despite his significant role in biblical history, Jacob's character was marred by flaws and struggles.

** Early Life and Deceptive Nature: **

Jacob was born as a twin, with Esau being his older brother. Even before birth, there was a prophecy that the older would serve the younger, indicating that Jacob would play a prominent role in God's plan. However, from a young age, Jacob displayed a deceptive nature, which earned him the name “Jacob,” meaning "deceiver" or “supplanter.”

Jacob referred to the way the second-born was holding on to the heel of his brother.

Additionally, the idea of a “heel-catcher” meant something in that day. It had the idea of “trickster,” “con-man,” “scoundrel,” or “rascal.” It was not a compliment.

**Genesis 25:19-34

New International Version

Jacob and Esau **

19 This is the account of the family line of Abraham’s son Isaac.

Abraham became the father of Isaac, 20 and Isaac was forty years old when he married Rebekah daughter of Bethuel the Aramean from Paddan Aram[a] and sister of Laban the Aramean.

21 Isaac prayed to the Lord on behalf of his wife, because she was childless.

MARRIAGE POINT!!! (Now Isaac pleaded with the LORD for his wife, because she was barren: Even the son of promise did not come into the promise easily. It only came through waiting and prayer. We can trust that the prayers of a husband for his wife have a special effectiveness.)

The Lord answered his prayer, and his wife Rebekah became pregnant.

MARRIAGE POINT!!!! This prayer was answered, but some 20 years after Isaac and Rebekah first married (Genesis 25:20, 26). Their faith and persistence in prayer was tested and invited to grow through many years.

22 The babies jostled each other within her, and she said, “Why is this happening to me?” So she went to inquire of the Lord.

SPIRITUAL TIP:  It is good to desire that the LORD would speak to us, but we must realize we do not hear perfectly from God. We can become far too confident in our ability to hear from the LORD, and forget that it is easy for us to stop listening when God wants to keep speaking. We may add to what the LORD is saying, or hear it clearly but misunderstand the timing or application of what the LORD says to us.

23 The Lord said to her,

“Two nations are in your womb, and two peoples from within you will be separated; one people will be stronger than the other, and the older will serve the younger.”

24 When the time came for her to give birth, there were twin boys in her womb. 25 The first to come out was red, and his whole body was like a hairy garment; so they named him Esau.[b] 26 After this, his brother came out, with his hand grasping Esau’s heel; so he was named Jacob.[c] Isaac was sixty years old when Rebekah gave birth to them

27 The boys grew up, and Esau became a skillful hunter, a man of the open country, while Jacob was content to stay at home among the tents. 28 Isaac, who had a taste for wild game, loved Esau, but Rebekah loved Jacob.

29 Once when Jacob was cooking some stew, Esau came in from the open country, famished. 30 He said to Jacob, “Quick, let me have some of that red stew! I’m famished!” (That is why he was also called Edom.[d])

31 Jacob replied, “First sell me your birthright.” the birthright determined who would inherit the covenant God made with Abraham; the covenant of a land, a nation, and the Messiah.

32 “Look, I am about to die,” Esau said. “What good is the birthright to me?”

33 But Jacob said, “Swear to me first.” So he swore an oath to him, selling his birthright to Jacob.

34 Then Jacob gave Esau some bread and some lentil stew. He ate and drank, and then got up and left.

So Esau despised his birthright.

Jacob was guilty of scheming in the flesh to gain something God said was already his. Yet we should remember the far greater blame was placed on Esau, who despised his birthright.

Martin Luther drew attention to an important fact: this was not a valid transaction, because Jacob tried to purchase what was already his, and Esau tried to sell something that didn’t belong to him.

23 The Lord said to her,

“Two nations are in your womb, and two peoples from within you will be separated; one people will be stronger than the other, and the older will serve the younger.”

**Wrestling with God: **

Jacob's life took a significant turn during a night at the Jabbok River. Here, he wrestled with an angel or possibly God Himself. This encounter demonstrated his physical and spiritual determination, symbolizing his struggles with both God and his own identity. Through this wrestling, Jacob's name was changed to Israel, signifying a transformation in his character and a recognition of his dependence on God.

**Broken Relationships: ** Jacob's journey was marked by strained relationships within his family. His favoritism toward his son Joseph caused resentment and jealousy among his other sons, leading to the selling of Joseph into slavery. Additionally, Jacob's relationship with his twin brother, Esau, was deeply troubled due to past deceitful actions.

Redemption and Reconciliation:

Despite his brokenness, Jacob experienced redemption and reconciliation in his life. He eventually reconciled with Esau, finding forgiveness and restoration. Jacob's return to the Promised Land marked the fulfillment of God's covenant with his forefathers. Moreover, through his twelve sons, the twelve tribes of Israel were formed, becoming a vital part of God's chosen people.

Jacob's life showcases the transformative power of God's grace and forgiveness, even in the midst of human brokenness. Through his story, we are reminded of our own struggles and imperfections, yet encouraged to seek God's transformative power to redeem and reconcile us to Himself and others.

**B. Acknowledging our own brokenness and need for redemption **

Acknowledging our own brokenness and need for redemption is an essential step in our spiritual journey and growth. As human beings, we all have flaws, struggles, and past mistakes that we may try to hide or deny. However, embracing our brokenness and recognizing our need for redemption is crucial for several reasons:

INTERACTION: What are some reasons that embracing our brokenness and recognizing our need for redemption is crucial on our walk?

Humility: Acknowledging our brokenness requires humility, recognizing that we are not perfect and that we need God's help and grace in our lives. Humility opens our hearts to God's transformative work.

Self-awareness: Embracing our brokenness helps us become self-aware of our weaknesses, character flaws, and harmful behaviors. It allows us to identify areas in our lives that require healing and transformation.

Dependency on God: When we acknowledge our brokenness, we come to realize that we cannot fix ourselves on our own. We need to rely on God's power and grace to bring about true change and restoration in our lives.

Connection with Others: Recognizing our brokenness fosters empathy and compassion for others who may also be struggling. It creates a sense of common ground and understanding, helping us build authentic and supportive relationships.

**Freedom from Pretense ** (an attempt to make something that is not the case appear true): Trying to portray ourselves as perfect or without flaws can be exhausting and lead to a life of pretense. Embracing our brokenness liberates us from the pressure of maintaining a façade and allows us to be genuine and authentic.

Redemption and Restoration: Just as Jacob experienced redemption and restoration, acknowledging our brokenness opens the door for God's transformative work in our lives. God's love and grace are readily available to heal our wounds and restore our souls.

Spiritual Growth: Embracing our brokenness is a catalyst for spiritual growth. It pushes us to seek God's forgiveness and to grow in faith, hope, and love.

In prayer and reflection, let us come before God with open hearts, acknowledging our brokenness, and inviting Him to work in us. May we humbly surrender our weaknesses and allow God's redemptive power to bring healing, restoration, and transformation in our lives. Remember, it is in our brokenness that God's grace shines most brilliantly, offering us the hope of a renewed and purposeful life.