Part 1 | Am I Good Enough

By Matthew Wilks, May 24, 2026

One of the deepest questions in the human soul is this: “Am I enough?”

  • Am I good enough?
  • Am I spiritual enough?
  • Am I successful enough?
  • Am I lovable enough?
  • Am I wanted enough?
  • Am I enough for God?




Romans 3:23-24 for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and all are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus.





“You could never save yourself, so Jesus came to save you.”



  1. Everyone Falls Short




  2. Let’s define sin as:

    • rebellion against God,
    • independence from God,
    • falling short of God’s holiness,
    • placing ourselves at the center instead of Him.




    Jesus raises the standard even higher. He said things like this:

    • anger can become murder in the heart,
    • lust can become adultery in the heart,
    • pride corrupts righteousness,
    • and hypocrisy poisons religion.




    God is not measuring us against:

    • our neighbor,
    • our social media or someone else's,
    • culture,
    • family standards
    • or even church attendance.




    Isaiah 64:6 All our righteous acts are like filthy rags.





    Our sin will always produce shame.





    Grace is for people who know they need it.





  3. God’s Grace is always the measuring stick




  4. Sin is:

    • Rebellion against God.
    • Independence from God.
    • Distrusting God.
    • Living as though we belong at the center instead of Him.




    The standard is His holiness. And against that standard: “All have sinned.”





    Conviction and condemnation are not the same thing. Conviction says: “You need God.” Condemnation says: “God wants nothing to do with you.”





    Pride dies because nobody earns salvation. Despair dies because salvation is available even for failures. If salvation depended on perfection, nobody could be saved.





  5. Letting Go of Comparison




  6. Comparison shifts our focus horizontally instead of vertically.





    God’s holiness is not meant to lead us toward hopelessness. It is meant to lead us toward dependence. The purpose of recognizing sin is not humiliation. It is surrender.





    Grace creates honesty

    1. Stop defining yourself by performance
    2. Practice honest repentance
    3. Celebrate grace in others
    4. Reject self-righteousness
    5. Live gratefully




    Grace is for people who know they need a Savior





    The cross is enough.