A united family has God at the . A united family is united by the of God. A united family has accepted God's . A united family will always A united family is by God Ephesians 5:21 (MSG) “Out of respect for Christ, be courteously reverent to one another.” “Finally, believers whose lives have been filled by God’s Spirit will be marked by submission within divinely ordered relationships.” Maintain the Order in the family ( ) Ephesians 5:22-23 Wives, understand and support your husbands in ways that show your support for Christ. The husband provides leadership to his wife the way Christ does to his church, not by domineering but by cherishing. Ephesians 5:25,28 Husbands, go all out in your love for your wives, exactly as Christ did for the church—a love marked by giving, not getting. And that is how husbands ought to love their wives. They're really doing themselves a favor—since they're already “one” in marriage. Ephesians 6:1 Children, do what your parents tell you. This is only right. “Honor your father and mother” is the first commandment that has a promise attached to it, namely,