A Relentless Kindness

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By Dan Osborn, January 11, 2026

Relentless Kindness

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Ruth's Relentless Kindness

  • The book of Ruth is not just a romance; it is an explosive challenge to embody the kindness of God.
  • The story is set during the time of the Judges, a dark period where everyone did what was right in their own eyes.
  • Naomi’s family moves to Moab, which was considered enemy territory for Israelites.

The Crisis

  • Naomi loses everything: her home, her husband, and her sons.
  • She attempts to “fire” her daughters-in-law because she believes she can offer them nothing.
  • It is the logical, prudent, and sensible thing for the young women to leave Naomi.

Two Responses

  • Orpah makes the sensible choice based on her circumstances.
  • Ruth makes a covenant choice based on her character.
  • Ruth binds herself to a woman who has no status, money, or protection.


Defining True Kindness

  • To understand this book, we must understand the Hebrew word Hesed.
  • Mishpat (Justice) is giving someone exactly what they deserve.
  • Tzedakah (Righteousness) is giving because of a moral duty.
  • Hesed is extending goodness to someone who has no right to demand it.

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The Nature of Hesed

  • It is a relentless kindness that refuses to quit.
  • It is not about fairness or duty; it is excess.
  • The ultimate goal of the Law isn't just compliance; it is character.
  • Ruth isn't just being a “good person”; she is being a God-like person.


The Gospel Connection

  • Before Hesed was a virtue of Ruth, it was the defining characteristic of God.
  • We often limit our kindness due to judgment (they reaped what they sowed) or fatigue.
  • Human love has a battery life, but God’s love is a current.

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Jesus as the True Ruth

  • Naomi was bitter and difficult, yet Ruth stayed.
  • When we were destitute and had nothing to offer, God did not turn back.
  • Jesus left His home and moved into our neighborhood.
  • Jesus took the emptiness we fear and absorbed it on the Cross.


Our Relentless Kindness

  • Jesus offers a new way to be human: stepping out of the “transactional economy” and into the "Economy of Grace".
  • Hesed is rarely found in the spectacular; it is found in the mundane.

1. Find Your “Naomi”

  • Identify the person in your life who is draining or bitter.
  • Our instinct is to leave, but the Spirit invites us to stay.
  • Offer kindness to someone currently incapable of being kind back.

2. Burn the Ledger

  • We carry invisible scorecards that turn relationships into transactions.
  • Give a gift that cannot be reciprocated.
  • We can afford to be generous because our account is full in Christ.



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