18 Summers: The Perfect Family?

Week 5

By Michael Storts, August 30, 2026

Big Idea Of This Series: Families are given a unique opportunity to teach their faith to their children. It may seem like they have an unlimited amount of time, but there are just 18 summers before the child becomes an adult. This five-week series looks at some of the most important principles we can instill into a child in those 18 summers.

Recap From First Four Weeks:

  • When you see how much time you have left, you tend to do more with the time you have now.
  • We need to remind ourselves every day that I only have this day once, and I don’t want to miss it.
  • What should we do with the time we have? Love God and love people.
  • Leverage Everyday Life To Create A Rhythm You Can Share With Others.
  • If we want it to be in them, it has to be in us.
  • Set an example of faith to those closest to you.
  • Faith is formed in the ordinary moments of everyday life.

There Is No Such Thing As The Perfect Family.

But There Is A Perfect God Who Wants To Use Every Family.

Tips For Living With Family:

  • Prayer
  • Release
  • Advise
  • Love

Prayer: Prayer should not be our last resort but our first response.

Philippians 1:9-11 NLT I pray that your love will overflow more and more, and that you will keep on growing in knowledge and understanding.For I want you to understand what really matters, so that you may live pure and blameless lives until the day of Christ’s return.May you always be filled with the fruit of your salvation—the righteous character produced in your life by Jesus Christ—for this will bring much glory and praise to God.

Release:

  • Stop doing for them what they can do for themselves.
  • Treat them the way you would another person you respect.

Advise:

  • Ask before offering advice: “Would you like my thoughts on that?”
  • Be okay if they say, “Not now.”
  • Let experience teach them when your words won’t.

Love:

  • Don’t confuse unconditional love with unconditional approval.
  • Keep communication lines open, even if the choices hurt.
  • Be the safest place for them to turn when life gets messy.