What INTERFERES with our view of family? We’ve all had pain or struggles. We don’t get a lot of help. We’re messaged different perspectives from culture. We’re all shaped and influenced by our “family of origin. Matthew 19:4-6 Colossians 3:18-21 4 Ways Your F amily Can Reflect Christ Better: Get a new PICTURE. Break the CYCLE. Go FIRST Parent the Heart **3. Go FIRST ** You be the first one to prioritize living “in Christ. You be the first to love them in the way they receive it. You be the first to forgive. You be the first to send an encouraging text or note. 4. Parent the HEART . Walk in unity with your spouse. Realize your kids are different than you. Own your mistakes. Be intentional about talking in non-conflict moments. Spend intentional time w ith each one. Discern what’s rebellion versus childhood mistakes. Help them see themselves the way God sees them.